Saturday, June 8, 2013

Witham Family Reunion 2013

Hello, Withams! Mary Beth sent out the family reunion information for this year's Witham Family Reunion. I'm not sure if I'll be there this year or not, as I'll be in the middle of a job change at that time. I hope many of you can make it, though. If anyone would like to be added to the Witham family email list so you'll receive notifications personally, just shoot me a message or comment below and I'll make sure you get added. Here are the family reunion details:

Dear Family,
I hope this note finds you all well.  I just wanted to remind you of the date for the annual Witham Family Reunion.  It will be held on Sunday, July 14, 2013, at the Lion's Club in Franklin, IL.  We will begin at noon with a potluck style meal.  Please bring a dish or two to share, your own drinks and table service, any pictures and stories as well. The doors will be open around 11:30am for those who would like to arrive early.  The Lion's Club is air conditioned and does have a wheel chair ramp for accessibility.  There is a park across the street for the kids and shade trees in the yard next door.  Bring any games, indoor and outdoor that you would like and don't forget your camera!  If I've left anyone off of this please let me know their address and I'll include them or feel free to forward it onto them. I hope many of you will be able to attend.  It is not necessary to RSVP but feel free to drop me a line and let me know.  I'd love to hear from you either way!  Unfortunately, we only see each other and catch up on sad occasions these days.  This is a time to celebrate our family: to remember our past, live in our present and look forward to our future!  
Love,
Mary Beth Doolin Kruzan

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Growing Up In Pisgah


Pisgah (PIZ-gee) is a small farming community in Morgan County, Illinois, about 8 miles Southeast of Jacksonville, the county seat. It is also the town where my grandpa and his family were born and raised. For many years my grandpa's parents lived in this 2 story farmhouse located diagonally across highway 104 from the grain elevator, the most recognizable landmark in town.

The first time I saw this house was when I was a teenager and I drove my grandpa to a family reunion in nearby Jacksonville. He told me he grew up in that house as we passed it on the highway. I was too young at the time to be interested in family history, so I didn't really ask any questions about it.

The next time I saw the house was after my grandpa passed away and I was going to our family reunion by myself. I was older now and I was very interested in learning more about where my grandpa's family came from. I stopped in at the property and knocked to see if anyone was home. No one answered, so I looked around a bit and took some photos. I can't describe to you how I felt standing on that property - the home where my grandpa was raised. I imagined him running around outside, playing with his siblings. It was a powerful feeling for me. I felt very close to my grandpa, even though he had been gone for several years by then.

I wanted to learn more about this home and how my grandpa grew up, so I contacted his sister, my Aunt Marjorie, and I asked her question after question about what it was like to grow up in Pisgah. She was very patient with me and answered all my questions, bless her heart! This is what she told me.

My great grandparents, Charlie and Josie Witham lived in the Pisgah home with their nine children, Aunt Myrtle, Aunt Mary, Uncle Hank, my grandpa (Tom), Uncle Ed, Uncle Warren, Aunt Marjorie, Aunt Betty, and Uncle Ray. I thought grandpa Charlie's parents, Grandma Mary and Grandpa Francis Calvin, may have lived in the home, also, but they didn't. They had a place of their own, a few miles away. To get to their house, you would get on the road South from the elevator and turn right at the first road. They lived a long ways back on the South side of the road. It was quite a distance away - too far to walk. Grandpa Charlie would hook up the horse and wagon to go to Grandma Mary and Grandpa Francis Calvin's house. The kids would sit on bales of hay in the wagon for the trip.

My grandpa (Thomas Washington Witham) was born fourth out of the nine children. From my grandpa on, every one of Charlie and Josie Witham's kids were born while they lived in that house in Pisgah. Aunt Marjorie is unsure about the rest, but she knows the last three kids were actually born IN THE HOUSE.

Pisgah was a small community of 50 people or less. The surrounding towns made fun of people from Pisgah because they considered them hicks. There was an elevator in town and a store with a porch. The store had a gas pump on the South end of the porch. On the North end of the porch, there was a bread box where the delivery man could deliver the bread in the wee hours of the morning. The bread box remained unlocked, but no one ever stole any bread from it. The man who ran the store lived upstairs. Today, the elevator is still standing, but the store has been torn down.

The Witham kids attended a one room schoolhouse in Pisgah called, 'Science Hill School'. They walked to school or caught rides with neighbors who had cars. The neighbors driving by wouldn't pass them up without giving them a ride. One day the teacher asked everyone in class what year they were born. Uncle Ray and Aunt Betty got a spanking for saying they were both born in the same year, 1926. Grandpa Charlie came to the school and told the teacher they WERE born in the same year. Aunt Betty was born in January and Uncle Ray was born in December. The teacher had to apologize. Aunt Marjorie said that even though Pisgah was a small town, they had a lot of kids in school. In the third grade, they had so many kids, they had to sit 2 kids in each seat.

Grandpa Charlie tenant farmed for a man named Albert Curry. They farmed wheat, beans, and corn. They had to shuck corn by hand. Aunt Marjorie said her brother, Uncle Hank, was the best shucker in all of Morgan County. They also raised chickens and had a cow to milk. They walked behind horses to plow their fields and even had a lawn mower that was pulled by horses. Albery Curry always gave them a few hogs to kill. The neighbors would all get together when it was time to do the butchering.

In the house, there were 3 bedrooms upstairs for the kids. Aunt Betty and Aunt Marjorie had the bedroom in the Southwest corner. The bigger, middle bedroom was shared by my grandpa Tom, Uncle Warren, and Uncle Raymond. The Northwest bedroom was shared by Uncle Ed and Uncle Hank (John Francis). Aunt Myrtle and Aunt Mary were already out of the house by this time, as they were the oldest. Downstairs, there was a kitchen, a dining room, a living room, and Grandma Josie and Grandpa Charlie's bedroom. The kids normally slept 2 in a bed, but would sleep 3-4 in a bed to keep warm in the colder months. Uncle Ed remembered cracks in the house where the wind would blow through, but Aunt Marjorie doesn't remember
this. Everyone would line up behind the stove downstairs to keep warm when they had to.

There was no electricity in Pisgah when they were growing up. Aunt Marjorie said she was in high school before they got electricity. Grandpa Charlie had one gasoline lamp. When they did get electricity, they just had a bulb hanging from the ceiling. There were no lamps or light switches on the wall. When they got electricity, my grandpa, Tom Witham, bought Grandma Josie a washing machine. It was the old kind that had rollers and then you would hang your clothes to dry. In the Wintertime, you would hang them indoors. There was no indoor plumbing, so you had to use the outhouse when nature called.

For family entertainment, they would listen to the radio, especially the Grand Old Opry. This was in the 30's. They would also listen to Jack Benny, George Burns and Gracie Allen, and an eerie show called, 'Inner Sanctum'. It was a big deal when there was a Joe Lewis fight on the radio. Neighbors would come over to the house to listen to the fight. There was a small wind-powered generator on the roof to charge the battery for the radio. They would also talk or the boys would play cards on the dining room table. Uncle Hank Witham would sometimes swear when he threw away the wrong card. The first time Aunt Marjorie heard Uncle Hank swear, she got up and left.

Grandpa Charlie would get mad at the kids sometimes and say, "All you want to do is eat, sleep, and run somewhere." The girls weren't allowed to go anywhere. The boys could hitchhike to Jacksonville. At this period in time, the girls in the family had to wait on the men, so Aunt Marjorie and Aunt Betty washed a lot of the boys' clothing, ironed their shirts, and polished their shoes, along with other chores, like carrying in water from the well.

Grandma Josie did most of the cooking when it came time for meals. The family always ate together, even breakfast. Grandma Josie sat at the head of the table. Grandpa Charlie sat in the first seat around the corner from her. They didn't have enough chairs for everyone, so they used a bench that would seat 4-5 people. Since there was no electricity, leftovers were left in the middle of the table covered by a clean dish towel. They used to have Sunday dinners with the extended family, but they stopped doing that because Grandpa Charlie's sisters married democrats!! (Mike: Too funny!)

There were no presents at Christmastime because there was no money for them. However, everyone hung up a sock and they received an orange, some candy, some chocolate drops, and a bag of nuts. The kids at school told the Witham kids that they never got Christmas presents because they were mean. Grandma
Josie said, no, it's because we don't have the money for them and told them there is no such thing as Santa Claus. The Witham kids then went back to school and told the kids that were teasing them that there's no Santa. Aunt Marjorie told me that when Uncle Hank got big enough to work, he bought a celluloid doll for Aunt Betty and Aunt Marjorie for Christmas. He also bought presents for every little kid in Pisgah.

The family went to Union Baptist Church. The kids usually got a ride to church. Aunt Betty, Uncle Raymond, my Grandpa Tom, and Aunt Marjorie all became members of the Pisgah Baptist Church.


Growing up, the Withams had dogs as family pets. Aunt Marjorie remembers a black mutt named Dan, and a police dog. Before he passed away, Uncle Ray told me about another dog they had. Here is what he wrote me about the photo above: "The name of that little dog sitting on Dad's lap is Pug. Someone dropped her off in Pisgah and she came to our house and stayed. Our whole family fell in love with her. She was a good rat dog."

Aunt Marjorie also told me about another large family in Pisgah that they were friends with, The Myers family. She said there was a Myers friend for every Witham kid, it seemed. In fact, Harry Myers was a great friend of my grandpa's. Harry married a lady name Nellie. Nellie's first cousin was Annabelle Stucker, who became my grandpa's first wife.

Before the depression, the Withams had a nice car and everything they needed. During the depression, like everyone else, they fell on hard times. They got their first car about a year before Aunt Marjorie started highschool, which was 1937. It was a 1934 Ford, so it must have been kind of new. They also owned
a model T at one time, and later, a Model A. Aunt Marjorie remembers standing on the running boards of the Model T once while my grandpa drove it. She admits that wasn't so bright, looking back on it. One day it was like they had everything they wanted. The next day, they had nothing because of the Depression. If you don't know Aunt Marjorie, or if you've never spoken with her, then you may not know she's a strong, independent lady. I've never heard her get overly emotional when speaking about anything except when she told me the following. She nearly started to cry. I could tell it affected her deeply. She told me that after the Depression hit, her dad had to work so hard to care for his family. It broke Aunt Marjorie's heart to have to see him work that hard. He could have given up - maybe he even should have, she said, but he didn't - he wouldn't. He just kept working to feed and raise his family. I didn't know my great-grandpa Charlie personally. He passed away before I was born, but he was a hard worker. He was a family man. He was not a quitter. He just pressed on and did what he had to do even when it tough - very tough! Doing the right thing isn't always easy, but it's always right! For that, I respect him greatly!

My family lived in this house until 1942 when they moved to Jacksonville. All 5 of the boys were gone in the service by then. Aunt Mary and her family later lived in the home again, so another generation of Withams were able to enjoy it. I'm not sure who lives in the house today, but I wish I were rich so I could buy it, restore it, and keep it in the family. Either way, I enjoy visiting it anytime I'm in the Pisgah area for a family reunion. To spend time in a place where my grandpa grew up almost 100 years ago is special! Thank you to Aunt Marjorie for sharing her memories with me and thank you to Charlene and Aunt Marjorie for sharing your photos with me!

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Old Family Photos - Withams in Kentucky

Aunt Marjorie sent me some photos from an old Witham family reunion in Kentucky that I wanted to be sure to share with you guys. Enjoy! ~Mike


Ed, Missouri, and Bascom Witham
 Ed, Missouri, and Bascom Witham are three of Robert Alexander Witham's kids. Robert Alexander Witham is a brother to Francis Calvin Witham.


Marlin, Bill, Wendell, Lela Witham
Here are 4 of Thomas Joshua Witham's kids. Thomas Joshua Witham was a brother to Francis Calvin Witham. Pictured are Marlin, Bill, Wendell, and Lela.


Marlin, Wendell, Lula, Lela, Bill Witham
Here are Thomas Joshua Witham's kids again. This photo shows both Lula and Lela. L-R: Marlin, Wendell, Lula, Lela, and Bill.


Evelyn Koehler, Prentice Witham, Addie Lee Smith
Here are three of Uncle Clay's kids, Evelyn Koehler, Prentice Witham, and Addie Lee Smith. Uncle Clay was the oldest son of Francis Calvin Witham and Martha McDonald. Uncle Clay was a brother to Charlie Witham.

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Raymond Lee Witham - Photos

Here is a photo Charlene sent me of the 3 Ray Withams. She said Uncle Ray was so proud of this picture.

Ray Jr, Uncle Ray, Raymond Lee Witham

Here is another photo I have of Raymond Lee. I believe this was sent to me by Aunt Marjorie. 

Raymond Lee, Uncle Warren, Stanley Witham

Monday, September 10, 2012

Raymond Lee Witham - Obituary

I just got an email from Charlene with a link to Raymond Lee's obituary.

Here is the link:  http://www.craigfuneralhome.com/obituaries/Raymond-Witham/#/Obituary

Obituary for Raymond Lee Witham Sr

Raymond Lee Witham, Sr., 68, passed away September 8 after a tragic accident. He was the son of Albert and Charlotte Witham and a native of Jacksonville, Illinois. He was also a veteran of the U.S. Air Force. Raymond had also served as the Chief Financial Officer of the Virginia State Chapter of the American Red Cross. 

He is survived by his wife Catherine Cinocco, sons: Raymond Witham, Jr. and Charles Witham, sister: Sandy Scott (Tom Adcock), and brother: Stanley Witham (Linda).

A Memorial Service will be held at 6:00 pm Wednesday, September 12 at Craig Funeral Home conducted by Deacon Jim Swanson. In lieu of flowers, donations to Hand-to-Hand, Inc. at H2Hnonprofit.org would be appreciated.

Sunday, September 9, 2012

Raymond Lee Witham - Accident Report

Charlene sent me an accident report and a photo for Raymond Lee. I wanted to be sure to share therm with everyone.

I didn't know Raymond Lee very well, but I spoke with him on the phone a year or two ago to ask him questions about the family Bible that he had. Raymond Lee was very nice to me on the phone. He answered all of my questions and shared information about Grandma Josie with me that I wouldn't have if we didn't have that opportunity to talk. Let's be sure to keep Raymond Lee's family in our thoughts and prayers. 

Raymond Lee is the great grandson of Francis Calvin Witham, the grandson of Charlie Witham, and the son of Uncle Warren (or Uncle Albert, if you prefer). 
Francis Calvin Witham
Charles Washington Witham
Albert Warren Witham
Raymond Lee Witham

Thank you to Charlene for sending the accident report and photo, thank you to Mary Beth for sending out a family announcement, and thank you to Warren for posting Mary Beth's announcement. 

Here's the accident report and the photo:

St. Augustine man dies after motorcycle crash on International Golf Parkway

Posted: September 9, 2012 - 12:00am

A 68-year-old man died after a motorcycle accident Saturday morning on International Golf Parkway between Interstate 95 and U.S. 1.
The victim is Raymond Lee Witham, 68, of St. Augustine, according to the St. Johns County Sheriff’s Office.
This crash marks the fifth fatal motorcycle wreck in St. Johns County since July 8, and the second on International Golf Parkway. Scott Milton, 17, of St. Augustine, died July 25 at the intersection of International Golf Parkway and State Road 16 when his motorcycle and a SUV collided.
Witham was driving eastbound on International Golf Parkway when his motorcycle left the road while going through a curve, said Sheriff’s Office spokesman Sgt. Chuck Mulligan. The motorcycle drove onto gravel and flipped, and Witham was ejected.
He was wearing a helmet, according to the report. He died at the scene.
Factors that may have contributed to him driving off the road are being investigated, Mulligan said.
The crash happened around 11:30 a.m., according to St. Johns County Fire Rescue Lt. Jeremy Robshaw. International Golf Parkway was closed as officials cleaned up the wreck.
Witham lived off State Road 16 in the King & Bear neighborhood, according to the county property record.
He was the chief financial officer for a business called Las Vegas Shooting Sports, according to the Florida Department of State. That business is inactive. The business address listed is the same as his home address.
The most recent motorcycle fatality happened on Aug. 31, when Donald Dumond, 67, of St. Augustine, crashed while driving a motorcycle on Lewis Point Road.

Saturday, September 8, 2012

Raymond Lee Witham

Dear Family,
I am sorry to share this news with you.  This morning, Raymond Lee Witham, died from injuries he sustained in a motorcycle accident in his home town of St. Augustine, Florida.  He is the son of Warren and Charlotte Witham.  I will forward Raymond Lee's obituary and arrangements when I know them.  Here is his mother and wife's addresses:
Charlotte Witham
333-16th Ave. S E Apt. 200
Largo, Florida  33771
Kathy Witham
2133 Crown Drive
St. Augustine, Florida  32092
Sincerely,
Mary Beth

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Photos - Henry Clay Witham's Family

We got in some terrific photos of Henry Clay Witham's family. Remember, Henry Clay is the son of William Granville "Uncle Bud" Witham. Uncle Bud was a brother to Francis Calvin Witham. These photos were sent in from Henry Clay's granddaughter, Dana. Thank you so much for sharing them with us!

Henry Clay Witham - Postmaster - Willis Creek, KY

Curtis Witham - WWII

Roxie, Curtis, Henry, and Geneva Witham

Roxie Barnes Witham

Roxie, Clay Curtis, Henry, Geneva, Argie Witham

Obituary - Maxie Harding Witham

I'm sorry to have to announce the passing of another member of the Witham family. Thank you to Maxie's daughter, Dana, for passing the information on to us. We're sorry for your loss.

Maxie Harding Witham was the son of Henry Clay Witham. Henry Clay with was the son of William Granville "Uncle Bud" Witham. Uncle Bud was the brother of Francis Calvin Witham. 

Maxie H. Witham 
Born: Thu Mar 31, 1932
Died: Fri Jul 13, 2012





Visitation
05:00 PM to 08:00 PM, Mon Jul 16, 2012
Location: Our Funeral Home 

Funeral Service
11:00 AM Tue Jul 17, 2012
Location: Our Funeral Home 

Mr. Maxie Witham is survived by:

3 daughters: Janna C. Thomas, Dana (Greg) Speck and DeAnna (John)  Pritchard 
3 Sisters: Geneva White, Angie Belt and Eula Dicken
4 Grandchildren: Latasia Cecil, Brandon Whitham, Jessica Britt and Megan Speck
2 Great grandchildren: Clay and Olivia Cecil

Maxie H. Witham, 80, Lexington, Kentucky and formerly of Albany, passed away Friday, July 13, 2012 in Lexington. He was the son of the late Henry C. and Roxie Witham and a veteran of the Korean Conflict. He was also preceded in death by a son, Tim Witham.

He is survived by three daughters, Janna C. Thomas, Albany; Dana (Greg) Speck, Somerset, KY; DeAnna (John) Pritchard, Byrdstown, TN; three sisters, Geneva White, Muncie, IN; Argie Belt, Owensville, MO; Eula Dicken, Bowling Green, KY; four grandchildren, Latasia Cecil, Brandon Witham, Jessica Britt and Megan Speck and two great-grandchildren, Clay and Olivia Cecil.

Funeral services were held Tuesday, July 16, 2012 at 11 a.m. at Talbott Funeral Home with Dr. John Toby officiating. Final resting place in Memorial Hill Cemetery. Arrangements made through Talbott Funeral Home of Albany.

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Withams - 100 Years in Morgan County

100 years ago, in 1912, the Withams, made up of mostly farmers, moved from Kentucky to Morgan County, Illinois to search for work.

We don't know the exact date yet and we don't know how they made the move (boat? train? horse and buggy?) We do know that it was a long trip, no matter which mode of travel they used.

Russell County, KY to Morgan County, IL is a trip of about 335 miles, as the crow flies, and 456 miles by modern roads. Even in today's car, it would take about 7 1/2 hours to make that drive.

(Click the photo to enlarge it.)

If you have any more information about the date of the move, the mode of travel used, or anything else that relates to it, please comment below or send us a message. Thank you! ~Mike

Saturday, August 11, 2012

Temperance McDonald-Dicken

Hi, Withams! I just heard from Becky with another great find.

Just to set the stage and jog your memory...

Becky is the great granddaughter of Alex Clay (Uncle Clay) Witham. Alex Clay is the oldest son of Francis Calvin Witham and his first wife, Martha (Mattie) McDonald. Sadly, Martha passed away when Uncle Clay was less than 2 months old, so Uncle Clay never knew his mother.

We also know that Martha grew up as a neighbor to Francis Calvin, so it seems to be a very romantic love story with such a tragic ending. Unfortunately, we don't know too much more than that about Martha.

Becky has had her nose to the grindstone for 2 1/2 years, trying to find the proverbial needle in Martha's haystack. She has now tracked down a living relative of Martha's sister, Temperance McDonald-Dicken. We have been given a photo, as well as additional information, about Temperance.

LEFT: Alfred Richard Dicken and his wife, Avo.   MIDDLE: Temperance  RIGHT: Lewis Allen Dicken 

Pictured above is Temperance McDonald-Dicken with her 2 sons and daughter-in-law. Thank you to Fred who provided the photo and to Becky who so kindly shared it with the rest of us. 

We also learned that Temperance is full-blooded Cherokee Indian, which means that Martha is most likely also Cherokee. If you recall, Catherine Bunch (Francis Calvin Witham's mother) was also full blooded Cherokee Indian. It appears that we have a lot of Cherokee roots in our family. 

If you have any more information for us about Martha (Mattie) McDonald, we would love to hear from you. Please comment on this post or send me a message. 

So, Becky takes us one step closer to Martha. She's still hot on the trail and if I were a bettin' man...

Friday, July 27, 2012

Announcement - Mr. & Mrs. Bill Kruzan

Congratulations to Mary Beth (Doolin) and her husband, Bill. Mary Beth and Bill got married on July 14th, 2012, the evening before the Witham family reunion, surrounded by immediate family on their patio. Mary Beth shared a few of her photos with us. Congratulations again - and welcome to the family, Bill and Brad!

Mr. & Mrs. Bill Kruzan (Mary Beth Doolin)

Mary Beth, Bill, and Brad Kruzan

Witham Family Reunion 2012 - Photos

Hello, Withams! 

I got some hot emails in from both Mary Beth and Charlene with 2012 Witham family reunion photos. Thank you for sharing them, ladies! We appreciate you very much! 

Enjoy the photos!

Kelly & Jeff Dixon, Karter Longley, and Katie Dixon

Bucky & Connie Leadill

Teresa, Dan, & Evan Weigand

Joni, Kane, & Mike Doolin

Cole, Jennifer, Dan, & Raegan O'Bryan, Aunt Beulah

Kim Heise, Molly Pearce (fiancee), Andy Heise, Pat Heise

Charlene Smith, Aunt Betty, Bill Smith

Bill,. Brad, and Mary Beth Kruzan

Bill, Jonny Charlene, Shawn, and Tanner Smith

Teresa Weigand, Mary Louise Doolin, Mary Beth Kruzan, Mike & Kane Doolin

Tanner Smith, Brad Kruzan, Kane Doolin, Tracy Leadill-Mulquin (in pink)










Witham Family Reunion 2012 - Attendance Report

Hello, Withams!

We just wrapped up our 2012 Witham family reunion in Franklin, Illinois. We had a great turnout, with 31 people in attendance, even though many of us at a distance (including myself) were not able to attend this year. I'm very thankful for all of you who were able to attend, as this was our first reunion without Uncle Ray. I think he would be proud to see the reunion continuing to grow with new family members reconnecting each year. Thank you for helping to honor Uncle Ray by participating and continuing what he started. Please come visit with us again next year - and be sure to invite someone else, too.

Here is the attendance information for this year:

Witham Reunion--July 15, 2012   (31 present)
Mary L. Doolin
Connie and Bucky Leadill
Tracy Leadill-Mulquin
Bill & Charlene Smith
Shawn and Tanner Smith
Pat & Kim Heise
Jeff & Kelly Dixon
Katie Dixon & Karter Longley
Jennifer, Dan, Cole and Raegan O'Bryan
Beulah Witham
Mike, Joni and Kane Doolin
Andy Heise and Molly Pearce (fiance)
Betty Robinson
Bill, Mary Beth and Brad Kruzan
Teresa, Dan and Evan Weigand


If you would like to be placed on the invitation list for our 2013 Witham family reunion, just comment below or send me a note and I'll be sure you get added. We would love to have you there! ~Mike

Saturday, April 7, 2012

Witham Family Reunion 2012

Hello, Withams!

Mary Beth just sent out an announcement concerning the upcoming Witham Family Reunion for this year. Here is her announcement. Hope to see you there! ~Mike


Hello Everyone!
As you know, Uncle Ray was the one who arranged our annual Witham Family Reunion.  He always scheduled them a year in advance.  The date he had for this year is Sunday, July 15, 2012.  It's very hard to think of having a reunion without him but I know many of us cousins have talked recently about it and we will have this one as a time to gather together as family and a time to pay tribute to what Uncle Ray began so many years ago.

I hope as many of you that can, will be able to join us.

Date: Sunday, July 15, 2012
Time: Gather at noon, eat at 12:30pm
Place: Lion's Club, Franklin, IL

Bring a covered dish or two to share, your own drinks and table service.  Feel free to bring any pictures from past reunions or of family members who cannot come.  I know our family has grown over the years.  It would be nice to keep caught up with them.

In closing, this is the Witham Family webpage: http://withamfamilyhistory.blogspot.com/
It was established and is maintained by Mike Smith.  Mike is Tom Witham's grandson.  I met Mike at last year's reunion.  He's quite talented and it shows.  I suggest you check it out.  Mike has family history, pictures, last year's reunion, news, and much more.  He's good about posting and keeping it updated.

So, spread the word and I hope to see you in July!
Until then, Happy Easter, Happy Spring!
Mary Beth Doolin
granddaughter of Mary Witham Smith

Friday, March 16, 2012

Rheta A. Smith (Hovey) - Obituary

I'm sorry to have to report another passing in our family. Rheta Smith, who was married to Aunt Mary's son, John, has passed away. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Thank you to Mary Beth for letting us know. Here is Rheta's obituary.


Mrs. Rheta A. Smith (Hovey)
November 23, 1933 - March 13, 2012

Visitation:
March 18, 2012 1:00pm - 3:00pm
Williamson Funeral Home
1405 Lincoln Ave. Jacksonville, IL 62650

Services:
March 19, 2012 11:00am
Williamson Funeral Home
1405 Lincoln Ave. Jacksonville, IL 62650

Rheta A. Smith, 78, of Jacksonville, passed away Tuesday, March 13, 2012 at the South Baldwin Regional Medical Center in Foley, Alabama, with her family by her side. She was born November 23, 1933, in Loami, the daughter of Russell and Grace Johnson Hovey. She married John E. Smith on December 23, 1952 at Union Baptist Church near Pisgah, and he survives. She is also survived by four children, Robin (husband, Neil) Snelling, Rusty Smith, Doug (wife, Christy) Smith, and Susan (husband, Timm) Pennell, all of Jacksonville; nine grandchildren, Matt (wife, Aimee) Snelling, Ally and Andy Smith, Brandon (wife, Heather) and Andrew Miller, Adam Logue, Holly, Ethan, and Dillon Pennell; four great-granddaughters, Grace and Katie Snelling, Amelia Pennell, and Taylor Miller; four sisters, Virginia Edwards of Springfield, Joyce (husband, Jim) Crawford of Springfield, Martha Pippin of Greenview, and Kay (husband, Larry) Price of Springfield; several nieces and nephews and great-nieces and great-nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents and one brother, Roger D. Hovey (surviving wife Janet of Springfield). Mrs. Smith graduated from Franklin High School in 1952. She worked for Jacksonville School District #117 for twenty-five years, most of those years as the school secretary at North Jacksonville Elementary. She was a member of Centenary United Methodist Church in Jacksonville. Mrs. Smith was a loving wife, devoted mother, and doting grandmother. She and John enjoyed spending their winters in Florida and their summers at the lake. When her children needed her, she was always there to give her love and support. She was the #1 Fan at each of her grandchildren’s sporting and school events. Rheta cherished her friends and family. She looked forward to her monthly “sisters luncheon”, enjoyed keeping in touch with her high school girlfriends, loved getting together with the same bunco group for over fifty years, and playing Scrabble, cards, or lawn games with the many friends she made while camping and traveling. Funeral services will be held at 11 a.m. on Monday, March 19, 2012, at Williamson Funeral Home in Jacksonville, with burial at Diamond Grove Cemetery. The family will meet friends from 1 to 3 p.m. on Sunday at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, memorials are suggested to the American Cancer Society or Centenary United Methodist Church. Condolences may be left to the family online at www.airsman-hires.com.

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Witham Family History 2012

Hello, Withams!

Here are the latest developments for our Witham Family History project.

Unfortunately, the first two posts of this year were obituaries. That caused me to stop and think long and hard for awhile. While I didn't know Wendell, I sure wish I would have been able to contact him, talk to him, and interview him about his life and what he knows about our family.

I did know Uncle Ray and I took his passing harder than expected. While I know Uncle Ray had a full, blessed life, it reminded me that there are only 2 of my grandpa's siblings still with us. It was a stark reminder that their generation won't be with us forever and when they pass, a lot of information and family history passes with them. I was reminded, however, that out of all of Charlie Witham's kids (9 of them), the youngest one to pass away was Uncle Hank at the age of 74 - and that's with 5 brothers who all went to war. So, the Withams have some longevity about them, anyway, it seems. We're trying to gather some pictures of Uncle Ray so we can make a video memorial for the website. I'll be sure to pass that on if we're able to do it.

Uncle Ray was the leader for our family reunion. The reunion was important to Uncle Ray. He kept it going for many, many years. Uncle Ray was leading the reunion even way back in my teen years when I used to come to the reunions with my grandpa. That brings me to a question I've been getting a lot, lately.

So, what's going on with the reunion? As far as I know, someone will be taking over the responsibilities for the reunion. There are a few names being tossed around, but I don't want to give them out yet until I hear something definitive. I will make a post immediately as soon as I hear anything at all.

Aunt Myrtle's daughter, Charlene, has put together a family email list to make circulating important family news easier. If you want to get on her list, please email me or make a comment on this post to that effect and I will pass it on to Charlene so you can be included in family news.

This is our 79th blog post. This blog has really helped us attract other folks across the internet who are interested in Witham family history. We've made quite a few contacts who are distant relatives our ours, mainly descendants of Francis Calvin Witham's brothers. Expect to hear more about them as developments unfold.

It's also been fun to get emails from my distant cousins who are becoming more interested in our family history and want to know more.

Becky is hot on the trail of Catherine Bunch, Francis Calvin Witham's mother. So, expect some VERY interesting Catherine Bunch developments, too.

I'll be continuing my monthly interview phone calls with Aunt Marjorie. Aunt Marjorie is my grandpa's sister and one of only 2 remaining siblings he has. Aunt Marjorie's memory is as sharp as they come. I'm really enjoying talking to her. So far, we've discussed them growing up in Pisgah and we've talked a lot about Francis Calvin Witham. Next, we'll talk about Uncle Clay Witham, Grandma Mary Susan Witham, and her parents Charlie and Josie Witham. I'm still gathering and organizing information from her. When I get done talking to her about each subject, I'll organize it and post it to the family history blog and to Ancestry.com to share it with all of you.

I've also been able to reconnect with some members of my family, which is a terrific blessing! My Aunt Cyndy came to the reunion last year and brought her husband, Randy. Aunt Cyndy and I used to come to the reunions with my grandpa many years ago. This was our first reunion together without him there, which was emotional, but it was soooo good to see her there. I've also reconnected with her sister, my Aunt Cathy. I'm really enjoying talking to her and getting to know her better. It's been a real blessing to me! They also have another sister that I didn't know about, Aunt Michelle, who I recently met on Facebook.

Through Becky's efforts, we have recently met a professional genealogy researcher who does fantastic research work. We are talking about utilizing his expertise this year through paid research to see if we can break through some brick walls we have come up against. We'll keep you updated on that if we decide to move forward with it.

Please pray for Rheta Smith. She is married to Aunt Mary's son, Johnny. She is in the hospital and in need of prayers.

Stay tuned for more Witham family history coming soon...

~Mike

Monday, January 23, 2012

Howard Wendell Witham - Obituary

Howard Wendell Witham
1914-2012

I'm sad to report that we received word from our cousin, Jack Witham Payne, that his oldest relative, Howard Wendell Witham has passed away.

Wendell is the son of Thomas Joshua Witham. Thomas Joshua is a brother to Francis Calvin Witham .

Wendell died Jan 17, 2012. His body is at the Bernard Funeral Home in Russell Springs, KY. Visitation is Thursday Jan 19,2012 5-6 PM and the funeral is Friday, Jan 20, 2012 at 1 PM. The funeral home does not have Internet access but his obituary will be in the Columbia (KY) Magazine.

Jack adds, "I had the pleasure of visiting him at the ancestral Witham Home in Jamestown, KY as well as at the annual Witham reunion in Wolf Creek, KY. He was a class act, a total gentleman with a keen mind and wit and regaled me of many stories about my ancestry. He remembered my Grandfather, George Sherman Witham as a child. He still put out a garden, drove a car and lived alone until his mid 90ies. I regret that I did not know him longer."

Below are some photos of Wendell along with the Witham ancestral home that he lived in.

Becky got to visit the Witham home in July of 2011. Here is what she had to say about it:

"The Witham Family Home! We can only guess the Withams that have lived in this house and visited there! My Great Uncle Wendell Witham lives there now and he is 97 years old. It is a beautiful place surrounded by the green and rolling hills of Kentucky! It is on Witham Road! You gotta love my Ol' Kentucky Home!! :)"

Thank you to Jack for passing on the infomation and thank you to Becky and Jack for the photos.




Saturday, January 21, 2012

William Raymond Witham - Obituary


W. Ray Witham, 85 of O'Fallon, IL born, Sunday, December 26, 1926, in Pisgah, (Morgan County), IL died January 20, 2012 at 3:50 am at Relais Bonne Eau, Edwardsville, IL.

Ray was a Veteran, proudly serving in the U.S. Army, Army Air Corps and U.S. Air Force. He entered the Army when he was 17 years of age and served in Germany during WWII, Korea and Vietnam. He retired from the U.S. Air Force in 1974, as a Chief Master Sergeant, with more than 30 years of service. After his retirement from Military Service he worked as an Employee-Labor Relations Specialist as a Civilian at Scott Air Force Base for 16 and one half years.

Ray went to Grade School, first through eighth grade, in a one room Rural School Building in the Community of Pisgah, IL and attended Franklin Community High School in Franklin, IL. He graduated from High School in 1951 and attended Bethany College in Lindsberg, KS.

Ray loved his Church, his Country and his Family. He loved playing golf with his golfing buddies. The most one could lose was $2.00 but Ray always said it was more fun to win than it was to lose. He was an avid St. Louis Cardinal Fan, in the days of Dizzy and Paul Dean. His Great Grand Children Cole and Raegan were his pride and joy.

Ray was a member of the First United Methodist Church, O'Fallon, IL, Life member and Past Master (1996 and 2008) of O'Fallon Masonic Lodge 576, O'Fallon, IL, member and Past Master, Lebanon Masonic Lodge 110, Lebanon, IL. He also served the O'Fallon Lodge as Secretary for four and one half years.

He was a life member of the Scottish Rite Masonic Bodies, Valley of Southern IL, Belleville, IL. He served as Presiding Officer of the Cahokia Council Princes of Jerusalem and Thrice Potent Master of The St. Clair Lodge of Perfection. Ray received the Meritorious Service Award in Springfield, IL June 1984. He was created a Sovereign Grand Inspector General, 33rd Degree, September 1, 1987, in Boston, MA.

Ray was a member of the Belleville York Right Masonic Bodies, Belleville, IL. He served as presiding Officer of all three bodies. Member of the following pendent York Rite Bodies; Southern Illinois York Rite College 33, served as Governor (2000-2001). Cahokia Mounds Council 225, Allied Masonic Degrees, Past Venerable Master. Patros Tabernacle LVIII, Holy Royal Arch Knight Templar High Priest, Past VEP. He was also a member of the Red Cross of Constantine, Saxa Ruba Conclave, Champagne, IL. He was awarded the Knight York Cross of Honor, November 30, 1987, in Danville IL, and awarded the Order of Purple Cross, August 2, 1997 in Denver, CO. Ray was an Honorary member Belvidere Commandry No. 2 and Emanuel No. 81.

Ray was a member of the Ainad Shriners, East St. Louis, IL. He was a member and Past Commander (1975) Ainad Shrine Legion of Honor, member and Past President (1997 and 2000) of Dania Shrine Club, O'Fallon, IL. He was a member of the Sword of Bunker Hill, Charles A. Lindbergh Chapter 247, National Sojourners Past President (1999-2000). He was also a member of General Rogers Clark Camp, Hero's of 76, Past Commander (2000-2003).

Ray was preceded in death by his:

Parents: Charles W. and Josie nee Mann, Witham
Daughter: Donna Rippey
Grandson: Curtis Ray Rippey
Son-in-Law: Warren Rippey
Four Brothers: Hank, Tom, Ed and Warren
Two Sisters: Myrtle Probasco and Mary Smith

Ray is survived by his:

Wife: Beulah, who he married in 1947, in Jacksonville, IL with the Late Reverend Garfield Rodgers Officiating
Daughter: Christina (Bill) Watson of Haslet, TX
Granddaughter: Jennifer (Dan) O'Bryan of Breese, IL
Grandson: Brad (Erin) Davison-Rippey of Des Moines, IA
Great Grandson: Cole E. O'Bryan
Great Granddaughter: Raegan C. O'Bryan of Breese, IL
Sisters: Marjorie Witham and Betty Robinson of Jacksonville, IL
Many loving nieces and nephews

Memorials: In lieu of flowers donations may be made to First United Methodist Church of O'Fallon, IL, O'Fallon Lodge 576, 32 Degree Learning Center for Children, Inc., and /or Hospice of Southern IL.

Visitation: Friends may call from 3-8 pm Monday, January 23, 2012 at Kurrus Funeral Home, Belleville, IL with a Legion of Honor walk through at 7:15pm followed by a Masonic Service.

Funeral: Funeral Service will be held at 10:00am Tuesday, January 24, 2012 at Kurrus Funeral Home with Rev. Ron Dickinson and Rev. Joel Catlin officiating. Interment will follow at the O'Fallon, IL city Cemetery.

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Francis Calvin & Mary Witham with Kids

Hello, everyone! I just got this photo in from Aunt Marjorie and wanted to share it with you. Thank you, Aunt Marjorie!



Gpa Francis Calvin & Gma Mary Witham. Kids: Charley Witham on left. Uncle Walter on right. Uncle Bill Witham in the middle. Aunt Jen on Gpa's lap. Aunt X on Gma's lap.

Aunt Marjorie wrote, "If the eyes look funny, Billy Jean (Billy Jean Witham) told me her dad (William Fredrick Witham) punched the eyes out (of the photo) with a pencil."